So
I know everyone’s not perfect and now a days it’s very hard for a “lad” to find
a nice respectful lady, but lets just start of by saying if your going to
complain about girls having no respect for themselves or just “riding and
gliding”, then stop asking them to come for a drive for a “shift and drift” or
the new excuse “Netflix and chill”.
I
think half the world knows by now that I was recently in a real long
relationship (sense the sarcasm), but that relationship was the first proper
one of many. I’m not here to talk about why it ended because that’s my business
not yours. What I am here to say is that …
I
will NOT go from being wine and dined to some piece of shit wanting to bring me
to his bedroom, to look at his four walls while he try’s to seduce me with how he
takes ket every weekend with the lads and on Saturday one of the lads had to
give a big lump of hoover to get him out of a k hole.
Shout
out to the lad that snapchatted me saying “What we doing tonight?” me acting
the girlo and being chuffed “you tell me chicken?” and then I get a reply “well
there’s nobody in mine tonight”.
Poor
fella got pie thrown right into his hand. Sorry chicken but I would rather fall
of the roof of my house and dangle my eyelid from a nail.
What
happened to wining and dining a girl? Now I’m all up for a few cuddles.. But
bring me to a bar for a drink or two and then you might get lucky (100% wouldn’t)
but at least try.
Sometimes
I regret rushing into a relationship so quickly because I probably wouldn’t have
been so hurt or so heartbroken. There’s so many questions that I don’t know the
answers to and promises and words that where probably lies. I don’t believe in
love at first sight but what I do believe in is that everything happens for
reason.
What
I got out of that relationship was lots of good memory’s, the experience of
flying on my own and learning how to knit by an old woman. Most of all
confidence to know that I deserve better then someone who just wants my body
and tongue and not wanting my heart and mind.
I
realize that I shouldn’t have faith in everyone’s word, and act on my instincts
and never settle then less then I’ve got before.
Every
girl deserves to be loved, respected, and to have happiness.
Just
remember ladies never settle for less then you deserve.
“The
minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled
for.” Maureen Dowd.
#Girlpower anyway
Xo
Kisses
CJ